Yuhoo..Thursday- the most enjoyable day is coming again..Please don't mix up what I meant is NIGHT but not DAY. ok?
Thursday night is always a stress-free night for me although I need to attend meeting at NHS agency even I am tired sometimes. NHS agency is always a pleasant place for me to RELAX.
We will do some sharing, discussing, playing games as well. AM (agency manager) will updates us some latest news. It's a good place to learn new things. That's why I like it so much.
I sat beside my GSM (group sales manager) tonight. We talked a lot of things. Told me some dissatisfied matters. After that we went for dinner / supper together. She wanted to eat the hokkien mee which Ping bought her last time. Unfortunately, the hokkien mee seller was off. So we just went to another stall which is consider "famous" as well (i don't think it's good)..
We talked lots of personal's background. Knew more about each others after the night.
I would like to share an article with you all here.
装傻的聪明女人
爱一个人，记得不要爱那么多，一定要留回一点来爱自己。两个人相处最重要的是要体贴，也要体谅。不要老是埋怨，认错不代表认输。每一样东西都有两面，如果你往好的那一方面去想，你会发觉人生并不是那么痛苦的。人是为自己而活，何必为了一点小事而斤斤计较呢？
千万不要在他生气的时候和他闹意见。因为人在生气时，是听不下什么肺腑之言的。何不等他气消了，你才来告诉他你的意见，就当作是聊天，那不是一举两得吗？记得，语气要温柔，因为你们是在倾诉，而不是控诉。
无论发生什么时，不管谁是谁非，第一个道歉的并不代表是弱者，相反的才是真正的胜利者。快乐不是你拥有一切，而是你不斤斤计较。当然，认错也要知错！
男友也好，丈夫也罢，也要放他们假。当他和朋友聚会时，不要老是给他打电话，好像夺命追魂似的，这样会让他很没面子。如果可以的话，和他朋友打成一团，那就最好，他不用左右为难，顾到朋友又不会忽略情人！
男人在外头工作了整天，回来时当然希望有一顿好饭吃，有一个舒服的家，如果你不能在他回来之前准备好一顿美好的晚餐，那么你就先为他端上一碗汤，好让他觉得他推掉朋友的约会时值得的。千万不要在他还没把沙发坐暖之前就在他面前埋怨这，埋怨那，不要让他对你有渐渐反感的理由。
一对男女能在人海茫茫中相识到相知，已很不容易了，然后还要再从相爱到相首，更加不简单，竟然已成了夫妻，为什么不能好好地相处呢？记得，聪明的女人是要学会装傻的。要装可爱而不是扮可怜。
（要记得一句话“接受了，就没有怨，没有悔！”如有怨，有悔，那是时候重新衡量彼此的关系了。在处理情感上的问题要干净利落，不可拖泥带水。拖泥带水的感情，对双方都不好，是很疲惫的。 两个不同的个体，在不同的家庭背景与文化中长大，要好好相处，实属不易。这就是要靠彼此的互相忍耐，包容与理解。这是很重要的，缺一不可。 ）
“接受了，就没有怨，没有悔”
with love,
Ling
Friday 29 August 2008
Thursday 28 August 2008
26.08.08 Public Holiday for Penang
Today was a public holiday for Penang due to the election between Datuk Seri Anwar Ibrahim (fr Opposition) and Datuk Arif Shah Omar Shah (fr BN).
Although there was an election but KLCI still open as usual what. That's why I needed to go to work in the early morning as usual. It was extremely quiet along the way . No one really wake up early if it's a holiday.
Finally, I finished my work. Went back home for shower then straight away met Chiaw Ying and Ai Ling at New World Park to CHAT about our future financial planning. We had our drinks at Old Town.
We talked about our cash flow per month. How do we spend our money after get salary: Where do we spend? What do we spend? How much should we save for emergency? How much should save for future retirement? After went through with them only I realised they are short of Medical Plan which is the most important and basic in our life. So I proposed them the ING Mediplus.
hmm..Quite worried about them because they don't really plan for future. Especially Chiaw Ying who spend all of her money and doesn't save a single cent every month. haiz.. maybe she needs to work harder.. Take up part-time job. Hope she can really think of her future and work for it as soon as possible. CHEERS!!
Although there was an election but KLCI still open as usual what. That's why I needed to go to work in the early morning as usual. It was extremely quiet along the way . No one really wake up early if it's a holiday.
Finally, I finished my work. Went back home for shower then straight away met Chiaw Ying and Ai Ling at New World Park to CHAT about our future financial planning. We had our drinks at Old Town.
We talked about our cash flow per month. How do we spend our money after get salary: Where do we spend? What do we spend? How much should we save for emergency? How much should save for future retirement? After went through with them only I realised they are short of Medical Plan which is the most important and basic in our life. So I proposed them the ING Mediplus.
hmm..Quite worried about them because they don't really plan for future. Especially Chiaw Ying who spend all of her money and doesn't save a single cent every month. haiz.. maybe she needs to work harder.. Take up part-time job. Hope she can really think of her future and work for it as soon as possible. CHEERS!!
25.08.08 Out with Jasmine
hmmm.. Jasmine is going to Singapore soon. So i asked her out for dinner after work. We went to Queensbay Mall again. Having dinner at "bull restaurant".
Actually i was thinking to buy a birthday present for my hubby because his birthday is coming soon- 3rd of Sept. Who knows finally i bought a present for my dear~ Ping but not hubby . hehe...
We passed a shop which provides photograpy (da tou tie). The boss of the shop provides plenty of services like print your photos on T-shirt,cup,key chain etc..I thought it was quite common at first so i didnt think of this will be an idea as a present for dear until i found out there was a "Hot Water Mug". Me and Jasmine very curious about it so we asked the boss to show us how special it is. Opps..My goodness.. It's amazing. At first, it's just a simple mug which have your photo (without colours) on it. But if you pour in Hot Water, your photo will be appeared in colour later. Fantastic!!
So i choosed the photo which dear like the most one to be printed on the mug. Maybe this could be a surprise for her ?! Will upload the photos on blog for sharing when i get it. .
Actually i was thinking to buy a birthday present for my hubby because his birthday is coming soon- 3rd of Sept. Who knows finally i bought a present for my dear~ Ping but not hubby . hehe...
We passed a shop which provides photograpy (da tou tie). The boss of the shop provides plenty of services like print your photos on T-shirt,cup,key chain etc..I thought it was quite common at first so i didnt think of this will be an idea as a present for dear until i found out there was a "Hot Water Mug". Me and Jasmine very curious about it so we asked the boss to show us how special it is. Opps..My goodness.. It's amazing. At first, it's just a simple mug which have your photo (without colours) on it. But if you pour in Hot Water, your photo will be appeared in colour later. Fantastic!!
So i choosed the photo which dear like the most one to be printed on the mug. Maybe this could be a surprise for her ?! Will upload the photos on blog for sharing when i get it. .
Sunday 24 August 2008
Went Queensbay Mall with Hubby
wau.. I was so happy today...
Hubby told me the night before that he could accompany me to go for shopping today..I was so excited when I heard it..haha..Because both of us really didn't "Pat Tor" (shopping,watch movie,dine in restaurant etc) for such a long times.
Actually plan to go at 10am but just because of doing some miscellaneous things so reached at 11am. Straight away went for our lunch at "龙的传人". We ordered "失传"排骨 , 狮子头拉面, 冬菇碎肉芙蓉蛋饭，上海小笼包，杂果冰. My goodness, Those dishes were extremely delicious!!..I just don't know how to describe it. You MUST go to have a try !
After had our lunch, we went to Sasa. I decided to buy mask which my beautician asked so. Finally, I got to buy 2 types of mask- Oxy Mask (for whitening, firming, moisturizing, and softens the appearance of wrinkles effects, made in taiwan) and Pure Mud Mask (for combination and oily skins, made in Switzerland) Bought a Lip Balm as well.
All were PAID by my Hubby. I was so happy..hehe..
"Oxy Mask & Pure Mud Mask"
Now i wonder why so many ladies just like to choose a wealthy guy to be their bf. The feeling is very very good!!.... Thanks for the gifts ya Hubby...I LOVE YOU very much !!...
with love,
Ling Ling
Hubby told me the night before that he could accompany me to go for shopping today..I was so excited when I heard it..haha..Because both of us really didn't "Pat Tor" (shopping,watch movie,dine in restaurant etc) for such a long times.
Actually plan to go at 10am but just because of doing some miscellaneous things so reached at 11am. Straight away went for our lunch at "龙的传人". We ordered "失传"排骨 , 狮子头拉面, 冬菇碎肉芙蓉蛋饭，上海小笼包，杂果冰. My goodness, Those dishes were extremely delicious!!..I just don't know how to describe it. You MUST go to have a try !
"失传"排骨
狮子头拉面
冬菇碎肉芙蓉蛋饭
After had our lunch, we went to Sasa. I decided to buy mask which my beautician asked so. Finally, I got to buy 2 types of mask- Oxy Mask (for whitening, firming, moisturizing, and softens the appearance of wrinkles effects, made in taiwan) and Pure Mud Mask (for combination and oily skins, made in Switzerland) Bought a Lip Balm as well.
All were PAID by my Hubby. I was so happy..hehe..
"Oxy Mask & Pure Mud Mask"
"Lip Balm"
"Purchased products + free gifts"
Now i wonder why so many ladies just like to choose a wealthy guy to be their bf. The feeling is very very good!!.... Thanks for the gifts ya Hubby...I LOVE YOU very much !!...
with love,
Ling Ling
Saturday 23 August 2008
~LUCKY STAR~ is always there for me
Mum woke up in the early morning (4am) to cook some dishes for praying purpose. mum has invited lots of relative to come and have lunch together.
my cousin-WOOI who works in S'pore came my house as well. And he just came to me and asked me to explain the MEDICAL PLAN to him. Straight away closed him after explaination. Although the premium wss just Rm563 but it was already a big SURPRISE for me. I really don't expect anything in this afternoon.
Lucky Star is always beside me ..always there for me..Anyway, must always treat people THE BEST then you will sure get 'UNEXPECTED RETURNS' !!
CHEERS! ! ! KEEP ON GOING LING LING!!!
my cousin-WOOI who works in S'pore came my house as well. And he just came to me and asked me to explain the MEDICAL PLAN to him. Straight away closed him after explaination. Although the premium wss just Rm563 but it was already a big SURPRISE for me. I really don't expect anything in this afternoon.
Lucky Star is always beside me ..always there for me..Anyway, must always treat people THE BEST then you will sure get 'UNEXPECTED RETURNS' !!
CHEERS! ! ! KEEP ON GOING LING LING!!!
22.08.08 Skipped Class
I was extremely hungry in the early morning. So first thing i did is to call my hubby and ask whether he can buy me sausage bun as breakfast. But he was still in the middle of sweet dream. So he asked me to settle by myself. After an hour, when i almost finished a dougnut and Milo, my phone rang. It's he..Coming with sausage bun,fish balls and siu mai. I was angry but warm at the same time. Contradictory,isn't it??! I felt angry because he already asked me to settle by myself what so why he wanted to come again? Warm was because it's raining that time and he really bought me SAUSAGE BUN which i just kept in my mind but didn't mention to him just now. Really coincidence. Actually this happended several times already. SO, I TRUST THAT THIS WAS ARRANGED BY GOD.. TO LET US MEET AND BEING TOGETHER . THANKS GOD!! APPRECIATED MUCH WITH YOUR ARRANGEMENT!
Attended T10 class after worked. Hate to see the 'blur' lecturer whose English extremely BAD...what to do? still have to face her!! BUT...suddenly Mun Cheong suggested to go for DINNER at PIZZA HUT.
So me and Chiaw Ying were so excited just like the prisoner who are just released!..Three of us straight away went off in the middle of class. Met Ms.Wong downstair so asked her to join us. After that only realised the next day is her birthday. So we just treat her the meal. May we bring happiness to her.
Wish her HAPPY BIRTHDAY and ALL THE BEST !!
Attended T10 class after worked. Hate to see the 'blur' lecturer whose English extremely BAD...what to do? still have to face her!! BUT...suddenly Mun Cheong suggested to go for DINNER at PIZZA HUT.
So me and Chiaw Ying were so excited just like the prisoner who are just released!..Three of us straight away went off in the middle of class. Met Ms.Wong downstair so asked her to join us. After that only realised the next day is her birthday. So we just treat her the meal. May we bring happiness to her.
Wish her HAPPY BIRTHDAY and ALL THE BEST !!
Tuesday 19 August 2008
I feel GREAT even though failed in exam !
hmmm.. Knew that results will be out today. So first thing to do when i reached office was to log in MYACCA to check. But couldn't go through the page til 12.30pm.
T4 62marks pass
T5 11marks fail
T6 79marks pass
haiz..its actually under my expectation so i don't have any hard feeling. Just think of how can i cope 4 subjects at the same time and to sit for exam in the early of DEC(taking 3 sub now and retake T5 )...haiz .. just don't think about it first.haha..
Dating with Dear after worked. We were going to Queensbay Mall because she hasnt been there for a long period. Finally we stopped for our dinner at TGI FRIDAY after we went for window-shopping. We've never been there before so it's actually a fresh place for us. Wau..Keep on listening to birthday song which sang by those waiters and waitress to customers who are celebrating their birthday there. My god. Both of us were wondering were it really so many customers having their birthday today?!... Weird!
We ordered a set ( Appetizer- fried mac & cheese , Entree-Chicken Alfredo , Dessert-Chocolate Malt Cake) and Jack Daniel's Steak as well as two special drinks- San Francisco & Cranberry Fizz.
Chicken Alfredo
T4 62marks pass
T5 11marks fail
T6 79marks pass
haiz..its actually under my expectation so i don't have any hard feeling. Just think of how can i cope 4 subjects at the same time and to sit for exam in the early of DEC(taking 3 sub now and retake T5 )...haiz .. just don't think about it first.haha..
Dating with Dear after worked. We were going to Queensbay Mall because she hasnt been there for a long period. Finally we stopped for our dinner at TGI FRIDAY after we went for window-shopping. We've never been there before so it's actually a fresh place for us. Wau..Keep on listening to birthday song which sang by those waiters and waitress to customers who are celebrating their birthday there. My god. Both of us were wondering were it really so many customers having their birthday today?!... Weird!
We ordered a set ( Appetizer- fried mac & cheese , Entree-Chicken Alfredo , Dessert-Chocolate Malt Cake) and Jack Daniel's Steak as well as two special drinks- San Francisco & Cranberry Fizz.
Fried Mac & Cheese
Chicken Alfredo
Chocolate Malt Cake
Jack Daniel's steak
Jack Daniel's steak
The food and the environment was quite nice. We really enjoyed ourselves and gained some special memories there (met a indian waiter who could explain the menu to us in mandarin, the unforgettable birthday song, the colours and the taste of San Francisco & Cranberry Fizz, the design of the cake...etc)
Dear, Thanks for the night....!! :)
With Love,
Ling
Dear, Thanks for the night....!! :)
With Love,
Ling
17.08.2008 - Chong Wei LOST in final bout
We were so excited because the only one who may bring GOLD medal to our country-LEE CHONG WEI was going to play final set with LIN DAN from China tonight. So we (dad,sis and me) were quite rush when we had our dinner in "shua shua le" at Prangin Mall. haha..
Finally the match started. Lee didn't really have the form to perform (maybe due to under lots of stress which everyone in MAL is hoping him to get GOLD for us). Therefore,Lin Dan was leading and our dearest-LEE was just keep on trying his best to get points as many as possible.
In the end, LEE won Silver medal. He was so sad and could see that he was trying so hard to control his tears from moving out from his eyes. Haiz..
Sometimes life just doesn't go as what we expected no matter how hard we worked for it,right??
Life is unfair! But life is a challenging game for those who can prove themselves to GOD that life really will goes what they have expected if they keep on believing in themselves and really work it out . SO, Why don't we prove it bravely to GOD ??
Finally the match started. Lee didn't really have the form to perform (maybe due to under lots of stress which everyone in MAL is hoping him to get GOLD for us). Therefore,Lin Dan was leading and our dearest-LEE was just keep on trying his best to get points as many as possible.
In the end, LEE won Silver medal. He was so sad and could see that he was trying so hard to control his tears from moving out from his eyes. Haiz..
Sometimes life just doesn't go as what we expected no matter how hard we worked for it,right??
Life is unfair! But life is a challenging game for those who can prove themselves to GOD that life really will goes what they have expected if they keep on believing in themselves and really work it out . SO, Why don't we prove it bravely to GOD ??
Sunday 17 August 2008
16.08.2008..BAD FEELING
*Supposed to blog yesterday but i didn't due to go clubbing.
There was actually a misunderstanding between me and my dearest friend-Dear.
I was angry with her because she didn't reply my message at all while I was giving her an offer (via the message).So My thought of her has been vacillated. "She was so impolite !"- thinking of mine at that time. After that only found out there was actually a network problem in the middle of receiving each others' messages.
Oopps..I felt so bad on it. Feel so sorry to my Dear because i had a feeling of doubt in her. Apologised to her and promised that i will never ever doubt on her again. * FRIENDSHIP FOREVER*
There was actually a misunderstanding between me and my dearest friend-Dear.
I was angry with her because she didn't reply my message at all while I was giving her an offer (via the message).So My thought of her has been vacillated. "She was so impolite !"- thinking of mine at that time. After that only found out there was actually a network problem in the middle of receiving each others' messages.
Oopps..I felt so bad on it. Feel so sorry to my Dear because i had a feeling of doubt in her. Apologised to her and promised that i will never ever doubt on her again. * FRIENDSHIP FOREVER*
With Love,
Ling
Friday 15 August 2008
I was deeply hurt ..
Do you ever have the feeling of being alone? I just keep on having the same feeling recently..I felt that the relationship which is just maintained by me has been changed. I don't know what's happening right now?! What's wrong with all of you?! Was it because of the effort which i put into our relationship not enough? Or maybe i am just the only one who is trying out the best to manage the relationship but you didn't? Sigh.. i was deeply hurt and fell disappointment !!!
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